Your Sexuality is Yours.
Remember: your sexuality is centred in your relationship with yourself.
Your sexuality is yours alone, even if you choose to share it with other people. Since it is yours, be sure to give priority to your own experiences of pleasure. When you prioritize your own experiences and explorations of pleasure, there is amazing potential for self care and erotic growth, which is a rich learning landscape that can help you figure out what to ask for from others.
When you cultivate a self-loving and sexy relationship with yourself you are practicing connecting with the many facets of who you are...
Your fantasies
your body
your gender(s)
your desires
your energy
your spirit
This is more than exploring different ways to touch your bits.
This becomes a way to more deeply explore and integrate your whole sexual and erotic self into your life.
This becomes a way to unlearn cultural sexual scrips and turn towards and follow your own authentic pleasure.
This becomes a way to develop clarity about what relationships, people, and practices will nurture your erotic soul.