Your Sexual Revolution.

While most of us haven’t been raised in sexually liberated spaces, that does not mean we are not entitled to living our sexual liberation *now*. History has shown that waiting around for someone else to do the work of “overthrowing the regime” means we’re going to be doing a lot of waiting.

There is no time like the present to say ‘fuckit’ and live the lives we dream of. As we do this, the world *will* slowly shape in that direction.

So! What does *your* sexual revolution look like?

Do you have sex with yourself? If so, what would your solo sex practices include? How often would you have solo sex with yourself? For how long? Would there be toys? Outfits? Porn?

Do you have sex partners? If so, who are they? Are they all the same kind of person, or, are they different? What kinds of sex do you have with others? What does ’sex’ mean to you when it involves other people? Do you do things besides have ’sex’ together?

How do you dress your body? Feed your body? Photograph your body? Care for your body?

What values do your friends and community embody? How do they speak about themselves, their lovers, and their desires?

Sustainable change is often found by visioning into deep dreams and fantastical futures, and then reverse engineering those dreams by making small choices in daily life. The thing is that simplistic & instantaneous sex positive utopias are not a reasonable expectation. The world is far too rich and complex for Disney-esque truths to come to pass. 

This is such a gift! It means that there’s enough richness and complexity for all of our personal sexual revolutions to unfold according to our unique needs & desires. We can live our revolutions by identifying and acting in service for what would be ‘perfect’ today.