There is Power in your Pleasure.
Hi, my name’s Noah.
If you’re longing to connect more deeply with your pleasure and step into your erotic sovereignty, I’m here for you.
After all, who said healing shouldn’t feel good?
I offer 1:1 somatic (body-based) support and workshops for survivors of sexual trauma and abuse who want to deepen their relationship with pleasure and eroticism - both in Victoria BC & online. I also provide online trainings for therapists who support survivors.
My work is informed by neuroplastic and nervous system research, somatic and mindfulness-based therapies, humanity’s erotic wisdom, plus contemporary trauma trainings - I’m a certified somatic sex educator and sexologic bodyworker, and also have pursued a variety of other trainings which you can learn about here.
Please read on to learn more about my scope of practice and different options for working together. Also! If you’re interested, check out my core values and guiding principles, who I work with, free gifts and resources I have to offer, the lineage of my work, the ethical practice I commit to, or my long history in this field.
If you have questions, please send me an email - I’d love to hear from you!
Sex & Somatics: January 2025!
Therapists, coaches, and bodyworkers are welcome to join this two-day intensive exploring their personal + professional relationships with pleasure, consent, and holding space with integrity.
Revitalize your practice (and your life) with eroticism, presence, and embodied wisdom.
My Scope of Practice:
Embracing erotic joy after sexual trauma
Expanding experiences of arousal and pleasure
Coaching in negotiation and communication
Addressing pelvic pain / numbness / challenges with orgasm
Strengthening consent and boundaries
Journeying the 2SLGBTQ+ galaxy & transitions of all sorts
Navigating disparities in desire
Education regarding common sexual concerns
Mending wounds in self esteem & self worth
Sex & disability & aging support
Kink/BDSM resourcing
Ethical non-monogamy support
Deepening into sex, spirituality & ritual
How To Work Together:
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In-Person Sessions
Come visit my Victoria, BC home for sex & intimacy coaching, somatic sex education, dearmouring touch work, and sexologic bodywork sessions.
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Online Sessions
Not in Victoria? We can meet for virtual somatic sex education and coaching sessions over Zoom from anywhere in the world.
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Therapist Trainings
Are you a therapist working with survivors? I offer Sex & Somatics: a trauma-informed training on sexuality & somatics over Zoom.
A little about me…
I’ve worked and studied in the field of sexuality for 15+ years. And over that time I’ve found such joy in the wild magic of exquisite and present eroticism that creates space for deep feeling and connection. Which has brought me to this work in supporting survivors cultivating deeper connection with their erotic truths.
I’m also a survivor, with an insatiable love of soaking up the sun, playing in the garden, and swinging kettlebells.
And I’m here because…
I believe in helping people develop a conscious and connected relationship with their eroticism and pleasure.
I see a real cultural need for presence, intimacy, and touch that feels -so damn good-.
I believe resilience and joy comes with embracing our bodies and pleasure, not by avoiding and numbing.
I recognize that many dynamics (like sex-negative culture, poor sex education, racism, ableism, and many other forms of discrimination) hinder our ability to feel easefully sexy and alive. Yet, there’s little information on working with these obstacles.
I’m committed to bringing more pleasure and joy into the world, and I believe feeling even 10% more connected to our erotic selves is more attainable than we’ve been lead to believe.
“what would I be doing with my time if I made decisions based on a feeling of deep erotic orgasmic yes?”
-adrienne maree brown
A Gift For You.
In this 15 minute guided erotic meditation I facilitate a body scan, and then ease the meditation into a pleasure-based somatic journey. This meditation is a great potential avenue to explore and expand internal experiences of pleasure and arousal in a slow and somatic way.
What Clients Are Saying:
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"I feel that working with Noah saved me years of pain, confusion, and self-abandonment. Exploring my sexuality and having a deeper understanding of my sexual trauma with his support was a profoundly healing experience for me. Through our work together, I was able to look at previously banished parts of myself and find beauty, inspiration, and magic in them. I have never felt so deeply safe, seen, listened to and respected in intimacy before. That is because Noah is a gifted and experienced practitioner with a very unique, impressive set of skills and a truly trauma-informed approach. He is also genuinely supportive, kind, compassionate, and non-judgmental. I wholeheartedly recommend Noah to anyone looking to heal or expand their relationship with their sexuality."
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"I’ve been meaning to email you and have been having trouble finding the right words. I can’t articulate how meaningful it is the work you do. As some insights and learning continues to settle more and more, I am struck by the depth of value of what you offer in sessions. I hope you hear this often and with the appreciation you deserve, but I really truly appreciate you. "
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"I am really enjoying the areas we're exploring, including experiencing my self-consciousness in eye contact, being seen, and receiving touch that is for my pleasure. I'm looking forward to exploring more. I'm so grateful for the skill, thoughtfulness, insight and presence you bring to our sessions. This has been an amazing source of insight and joy so far."
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"I wanted to thank you again and express my gratitude for our time together, you really respected my vulnerability and allowed me to go at my own pace. I will definitely be putting some thought into what I would like to explore in future sessions."
-CL
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“Thank you! Our time together has been so, so helpful—often in ways I don’t expect. Things come up or happen that I know are happening because of the tools you’ve helped me acquire.”
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